I’ve Been Missing In Action but I’ve been Growing!
It’s been a while since I’ve posted and have been on WordPress, as you all have noticed I’m sure. In my last post I discussed how I was wrapping up my first year of community college. Well, it’s November now and I am in my second year of community college and have been living away from home in an apartment with friends as of a few months. In this short period of time I have grown a lot and have become more independent, and have faced some of my fears and learned that they weren’t as bad as I thought they would be. For one, I’ve been driving a lot more on my own than I used to. Granted, it’s been a lot easier because I have a GPS I can use now, but I’m a lot less hesitant to go out somewhere I’ve never been before. I’ve gotten lost a few times, but I’ve managed to turn myself around and find my way even when the GPS loses reception. I’m proud of myself for that, and I do feel a lot more independent and capable. Sometimes I really enjoy driving even, especially when the songs are good on the radio.
Living in another city for the first time has been a learning experience as well. I only moved about an hour and a half away from home, but considering I’ve always lived in the same small town for the past 19 years of my life, it’s been a significant experience for me. Thanks to swing dancing, I already knew a lot of people here, but I’ve also made some new friends and overall I’ve been very happy.
I also entered my first full-on relationship several months ago, which is something I didn’t think I would be ready to do because I had had some bad experiences with dating in the past that had made me hesitant to get involved. Even though it is over now, I had a great experience and learned a lot from getting to know someone on that deeper level. The experience showed me that dating could be fun and that your friendship with the person can still be maintained afterward if you ended on good terms. Dating can certainly still be a little scary, but I definitely have a better perspective on it than I did before. On reflection, I think it’s amazing how much our initial experiences can shape our views, and I’m glad that my perspective has finally shifted in this area.
Again, sorry for not keeping this blog up-to-date these past few months, but I hope you all have been doing well and have experienced some personal growth over this time too! If you’ve learned anything new or feel like you’ve improved in one area of your life, please tell me about it in the comments or in an email as I’d love to hear about it. Enjoy your week!