Friday: Frisbee and Swing Dance
Last Friday was a pretty good day. I went to play Ultimate Frisbee after school and had a lot of fun. It’s mostly guys who play at the high school and they can get very competitive, but this time they passed to me and I enjoyed it much more.
I even joined in on this frisbee target game that I thought I would stink at and would embarrass myself in front of all the others, but it turns out that I was actually pretty good at it and nearly won! I surprised myself and apparently the guys watching, who my friend told me were very impressed with me. After frisbee we took a lot of fun pictures, and we laughed a lot. 🙂
After frisbee I went home and got ready to go out swing dancing. My close friend Angela and her boyfriend picked me and my brother up, and we headed out an hour and a half for the dance. It’s a long ways to go, but considering our town is too small to have swing dances, it’s better than not going at all.
Swing dance had been one of my main ideas on how I could talk to enough strangers last month, but it turned out that I didn’t get to go in January and had to find other ways to meet people. I thought it would be easier to make small talk at swing dance, but that night I found that I felt really friendly in the beginning of the night, and later on more reclusive as I became more tired.
I did introduce myself to many people though and gave out a few compliments on cool-looking ties and an awesome handlebar mustache. The guys were quite appreciative too, and when I told one guy that I liked his tie, he responded by saying, “Well I’m really glad I wore it then!” with a smile.
I got asked to dance quite a few times in a row in the beginning, and soon became aware that I had to stop dancing at some point and grab some water. Some dances I sat out and watched. Sometimes I simply just wanted to sit out because my legs were sore, and other times I felt shy and had a harder time finding someone to dance with.
One guy asked me quite a few times, and even when he didn’t ask me I could tell he was trying to out of the corner of my eye. I asked one guy who I noticed hadn’t been dancing at all and had just been standing in the corner, smiling at the dancers. He said it was his first time ever dancing, and we talked about swing dance and how fun it is. He seemed pretty happy that I asked him, and he was sweet.
We went out to eat afterwards and that was fun too. We had some interesting and unusual conversations. We were hoping to see our usual waitress, but she wasn’t there so we met someone new. She was pretty nice, and we all liked her. I suggested that we should write a note to leave with her tip to try and brighten her day a little. On a napkin I wrote, “Thanks for being such a wonderful waitress Jenna! Tell Amy the swing crew came by! Hope you have a good night!” And then Angela added illustrations of the food we ate in monster form, and we left it with the tips and headed for home.
It was a wonderful day, even though it hadn’t started that way at school and I didn’t feel better until frisbee. 🙂